A Drogheda father, Aaron Murray, has been named Lidl Carer of the Year for Louth, recognising his extraordinary dedication to his family and the care he provides to his three children.
Aaron received the award this morning at Lidl Dundalk, where he was presented with the honour by the store manager and representatives from Family Carers Ireland.
A few years ago, Aaron made the life-changing decision to leave his managerial role when his eldest daughter Connie was diagnosed with autism and his identical twin boys, Kevin and Alfie, were born prematurely. Since then, he has become the children’s full-time carer, while also working evenings in a local supermarket, a schedule that allows his wife, Maria, to continue her work as a primary school teacher in an autism class.
Connie has complex needs and attends numerous appointments for speech and language therapy, psychology, occupational therapy, and regular hospital visits. She is a pupil at Aston Village Educate Together, where Aaron and Maria say they are deeply grateful for the “wonderful staff who support us daily.”
“They have no idea the difference they make to our lives,” said Maria. “The work they have done with Connie is phenomenal.”
Aaron’s daily care role involves administering medication, dressing, feeding, washing, managing challenging behaviour, and handling the school runs. Despite the demands, he says his favourite part of being a carer is “being there to support all the daily challenges our family face with autism.”
“It is not an easy role by any means,” said Maria. “The fight for services with the HSE requires a lot of patience and determination, but as a family we push together and do our best to ensure the three children get all they need. Aaron and the three children have a very special bond.”
The Lidl Carer of the Year Award highlights the invaluable role of family carers across Ireland — those who quietly provide care, support, and love every day.
Aaron’s recognition as the Louth winner is a reflection of that commitment, compassion, and strength — and a moment of pride for his family and the wider Drogheda community.
